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 1. How to write letters:
Since we use only the web site for letters and do not use Emails we want to give you some advice and hints on how our system works.
When writing letters using our web site: the first recommendation I have is to use a word processor program for long letters. This will help with spell checking and keeping the letter within the max size. Plus be aware that our site does time out if no activity is detected. Once you create your letter use a text program such as notepad or WordPad to copy and past the letter into first. For some reason Word has a lot of hidden characters that take up space.
Standard Letters.
Keep letters very simple at first. Remember your profile is available to the ladies to read. So don't waste time repeating what is already available to them.
Some DO and DON'T:
DO:
1. Keep is friendly and just be a friend at first.
2. Treat her the same as you would a lady in your home town.
DON'T:
1. Use poems or riddles
2. Make any commitment promises.
3. Don't offer to help her with money. Unless you really mean it.
4. Don't offer to support her family. Unless you really mean it.
Intro Letters.
The best way to find out if a lady is interested in the Intro Letter program:
First create a generic letter that introduces yourself. Again your profile information shouldn't be included. Keep the letter very basic as it will only be translated once and used on many ladies.
Send out the intro letter to as many ladies as you like.
Good luck :)
 2. What about sending money to my fiancée
Don't send money until you get to meet the women in person. There are two many con artist out there taking money from foreigners. Once you meet a girls and get engaged, the girl will expect you to provide financial support. This is part of the culture so don't be offended when the girls informs you that she need money for rent or food. Her family will be expecting you to take over. We try to screen our girls when they join the agency and have denied membership to more then just a few. As we offer free internet, and the girls can use the computer to convert their email to English. There is no need for money. However some of the girls can not afford the bus or taxi to get to the office. So if you do find a girl that you would like to help... PLEASE let us get involved. We will gladly set up a fund for the girls that you can specify and control how she get the money and for what. If you want her to have English lesson and pay for her taxi our office will gladly help you. Gifts are fine, but keep the cash flow low.
 3. What about the age difference
Our advise is to keep it in the same mental age group. Even though these ladies are more mature then western ladies, They are still going to have the same life experiences. A max age difference of 15 is a good rule. Expect a maturity age of 23 to be a good starting point if you are over 35.
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